Fire Woman Program

Are you ready to explore your sexuality in a way you never have before?

Do you feel like you have never had the sexual fulfillment, pleasure and orgasms you truly want?

Does your life feel lackluster, like it’s missing the spark that would propel you to a whole new place of living vibrantly and in total freedom?

Do you want deeper intimacy, brighter passion, and more profound connection in your life?

Do you feel disconnected from your body, your pleasure, your sexuality or your core life force?

Sexuality is not a one-size-fits-all by any stretch of the imagination, and yet, everyone has common aspects of our sexual nature that require exploration, understanding and expression. When you work on your sexual self in a deep way, it impacts every other aspect of your life. Then you can begin to live the fully expressed and passionate life you were meant to live, a sexually empowered life.

Based on the tenets of her groundbreaking book Woman On Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence (Penguin Random House), Fire Woman is Amy Jo Goddard’s unique flagship program: designed to help you look at all facets of your sexual life in order to heal and create the new sexual life and expression you most want. With Amy Jo’s expert guidance and in the safe environment of this 9-month experiential virtual program, you will explore the 9 elements of your sexuality and come home to your sexual self.

The Fire Woman program is for you if you want:

to feel more playful, confident and light in your sexuality

to be able to ask for what you want clearly and confidently, without feeling awkward or guilty

to release sexual shame, guilt, trauma and old beliefs that have been holding you back

to prioritize your self-care, pleasure, and joy

to spark your creative energy and vitality

to explore new relationship styles and new erotic playgrounds

to deepen the connection between your sexual and spiritual energy

to be a part of a supportive, sex-positive community of women

to feel a greater integration between your sexuality and the rest of your life

9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power & Sexual Intelligence

The 9 elements are Amy Jo’s unique framework of holistic sexual empowerment, as laid out in her book. We explore one element together over a nine month period, meeting at the beginning of the month for a powerful teaching call with Amy Jo in which she lays out the element. Assignments, worksheets and personalized rituals in the weeks in between offer you a guided framework to explore the element in your own sexual life. Then, we close out at the month with a community call for group coaching and Q&A. You will experience a sex-positive community of women who are earnestly doing their self-growth work, ready to support you, witness your process and celebrate your growth.

Excavate and rewrite your inspired sexual story.

Make space for the sexual self you’ve been waiting for.

Release your damaging emotional patterns and open up to having more of what you want

Radically accept your body.

Activate desire & create a sexual practice.

Give yourself permission & develop your REAL erotic authenticity.

Develop sexual skills & remember how to play.

Build sexual confidence and come home to yourself.

Nurture and increase your dynamic sexual energy.

One element & two classes a month… from anywhere in the world.

Each month we explore a different element of sexual empowerment. On the second Wednesday of the month we meet for our teaching call. Two weeks later, the final Wednesday of the month, we meet by phone/webinar for a community call for support, dialogue and Q&A. All materials are always recorded and made available within 48 hours of each call in our private program portal. You can participate from anywhere in the world by internet or phone–we use Zoom video conferencing platform.

Assignments & exercises keep you on track.

This is not a fluffy, inspiration-filled course that lacks practical application: you will get real assignments, exercises and practical TOOLS to keep you on track as we move through each element. This work is rich and so is the structure that will help you integrate the learnings so that your outcomes are powerful. Our group structure will keep us accountable and the specialized focus on each element allows us to dive deep in between biweekly calls.

Examples of the rituals we go through in the Fire Woman program are:

  • A powerful Ritual of Release to let go of the beliefs, stories, relationships and identities you most want to shed in your sexuality
  • A luscious Self-Love ritual to deepen your masturbation practice and expand your orgasmic capability
  • For partnered women: an intimate Couple’s Reconnection Ritual to give and receive sensual pleasure and deepen the connection

Build community with other women.

What would it do for you to have a community of women with whom you could share your sexual breakthroughs? With whom you could talk honestly about your struggles, celebrations and desires around sexuality? Through a private forum, we foster discussion on the 9 elements and the journey of sexual growth that we are each on. Women bring so many different things to the group and you will see yourself reflected in others, showing you that you are not alone and pushing you towards a greater version of yourself. This is a place where women are in support, and buck old paradigms of competition and scarcity. We raise each other up.

Women most often come to this work in their late 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s and 60s–sometimes earlier and sometimes later but always when the moment is right in their own personal development. You will meet women from all backgrounds and walks of life, and a variety of relationship styles and orientations: straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, queer, married, divorced, dating, single, polyamorous, monogamous, and more!

Some common factors in the women who choose to do this work include:

  • the feeling on being on a personal, life-long journey — many women come to this work having already done therapy, coaching, 12 Step, spiritual seeking or other paths
  • wanting to overcome longterm patterns of scarcity and deprivation — not only sexually, but also emotionally and financially
  • being in a service role and wanting to be able to help others — many Fire Women are also therapists, teachers, nutritionists, social workers, coaches etc. Sometimes, the thing that motivates them to work on their own sexuality is realizing they need to be better equipped when their clients bring up sexual issues.
  • being a mother and wanting to model healthy sexuality for one’s kids
  • struggling with low libido and confusion about desire
  • difficulty with communication in sex and relationships
  • wanting to open up more and surrender during sex
  • wanting to feel free, empowered and whole

What people are saying…

“Just being in a community of women and learning about their experiences and what’s possible has been really eye-opening!”

“Just do it! Just jump in because it changed everything!”

“I’ve had some sexual trauma and this program has helped me reframe the context of a lot of my experiences.”

“Amy Jo’s program surprised me in the depth of growth that I experienced. Not only did I explore and expand my sexual self, but I also felt tremendous shifts and deepening in my spiritual self as these two parts of me came into liberating and intense alignment. The synergy, and mutual respect of these two parts of me coming together feels crazy erotic in ways I didn’t know would be erotic at all. Everything inside of me has grown and become more spacious. I’m so amazed by that. I’m so grateful to have had this sacred space, the company, the encouragement, and the modeling of very powerful women and teachers to learn from on my path.”


“I have always lived my life from a place of shame and guilt. I’ve had this ingrown sense of not belonging, of being on the outside looking in, which never left me space for acknowledging my sexuality at all. This work has given me a chance to work on all facets of myself, my voice, my feelings toward my body, my desire, my emotions, all of it! I’ve been able to focus on myself, and it’s given me the ability to see myself as a sexual being. This work has really helped me so much.”


“Going through a divorce after 25 years of marriage, I thought it would take me years to attract the kind of partner I really wanted. But I decided to do this program and commit myself fully to this process. The work I’ve done on myself through this course, to understand my body and build my sexual energy, has been revolutionary and I found an incredible lover. Understanding that I am in charge of my orgasm, and being able to attract a skilled lover, has been huge. I find amazing release in my orgasms now, an incredible expansiveness in pleasure and sex that I did not think was possible for me — but at age 44 I found it and I’m so grateful.”


Who is the Fire Woman?

She knows this is important work. She’s no stranger to self-transformation–whether through therapy, coaching, 12 Step, spiritual seeking or other paths of personal development, she knows she is on a life journey and values each step that has brought her to where she is now. Now she’s ready to honor her sexuality in a deeper way.

She is ready for change. Ready to let go of old hurts she may have carried for a long time, or that may be woven into her family line and herstory. She’s ready to bust through old patterns. An urgency drives her–to heal wounds, to release what needs to be released, to change her experiences of sexuality, relationships and intimacy in a deep way. She knows that much more awaits her.

She wants MORE! She feels the call of her sexual self within her and longs to express the pleasure, ecstasy and power within. She wants to find and release her sexual voice, to ask for what she wants from a place of assurance and ease. She knows this would radically change her experience in relationships. She knows her sexuality is a source of her power. She wants to find the missing piece and integrate it into who she is in the world.

What This Program Is

The Fire Woman virtual coaching program is a 9-month curriculum based on Amy Jo’s groundbreaking book Woman On Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence. In this 9-month program, you have the opportunity to deeply explore your sexuality with Amy Jo’s guidance and the support of our vibrant community of women. It’s one thing to read a book. It’s another thing to have the author herself teach you the concepts live and be available to answer every question you have, coaching you personally to help you grow. This is a phenomenal opportunity to work with a master teacher who has been a leader in the field of sexuality for over 20 years.

This is a group program that meets live twice a month by webinar/phone, with rich community discussion in a private Forum and self-directed exercises and worksheets in between calls that build on one another to help you evolve yourself as a whole human being. The group discussion is rich, thoughtful and heartfelt.

This work is for women who are eager and excited to make this commitment to growing their sexuality, and who are ready to dive deep into this transformational work. This is a program for women who are an enthusiastic “YES” to more pleasure, intimacy, desire, passion and greater wholeness as sexual people. This is for women who have accomplished a lot and yet, have never taken the time to fully explore, celebrate, heal and empower their sexuality. This is for women who want to love their bodies more and live more pleasurable lives. Adult women of all ages, backgrounds, relationship styles, sexual orientations and identities are welcome! We honor the diversity of our community and all women-identified people in this program.

What This Program Is Not

Fire Woman is a group coaching program—it is not professional therapy. Amy Jo is a sexual empowerment expert with professional training in sexuality education. The work we do is very different from therapy. If you are seeking a therapist who can help you with your sexuality, check out the AASECT directory of licensed professionals.

This is deep and transformational work that includes excavating and releasing old wounds, beliefs, shame, guilt and trauma. We understand that many women have had experiences of boundary violation, assault, and/or abuse and we believe that healing work is an essential part of holistic sexual empowerment. However, our intensive programs are usually not the best fit for women who are in the immediate aftermath of a recent trauma or assault experience, as the work itself may trigger things that are not helpful if you are in a raw place around a violation.

We support women to work through their healing process at their own pace. Ultimately, it’s your decision if you are ready to dive into this work. If you would like to speak to a program coordinator before making the decision, we invite you to book a complimentary call to talk with us. Some of Amy Jo’s programs are open to people of all genders, but the Fire Woman virtual coaching program is designed for women only (however you came by that identity; we welcome women of trans experience into our community). If you do not identify as a woman but you would like to do some work with Amy Jo in the immediate future, check out her Going All the Way: Sex and Money virtual program or her Bringing Sexy Back: How to Reenergize Your Sexual Energy and Revitalize Your Sex Life COUPLES program. Fire Woman does not automatically include 1-on-1 coaching; upgrades to private coaching are limited and based on our coaches’ availability. Many women develop best with a combination of both one-to-one and group work. If you think some private work would benefit you and you understand that this is a 4-5 figure commitment, you can apply for a coaching package. A program coordinator will talk to you to assess whether we are a good fit to work together privately.

Get these bonuses when you sign up for Fire Woman:

Ultimate Confidence in Sex, Money & Business 6-Part Class

Value: $597

This 6-module audio course is designed for people who want to be more confident in sex and dating and who want that confidence to radiate outwards into other areas of their lives.

Woman On Fire, the book

In a cultural landscape that defines achievement in terms of the workplace and the family, and that judges women’s worth by superficial standards of beauty, sexuality is often overlooked as an essential piece of women’s power. In Woman on Fire, Amy Jo Goddard lays out her holistic, inside-out approach to sexual empowerment.

How to Have Your Best Sexual Year Yet

Value: $57

In this virtual workshop & ritual recording, Amy Jo guides you to review the 7 key areas of your sexuality and to set an intention for each one so you can create your best sexual year yet.

1-on-1 Ignite Your Sexuality Call with Amy Jo

Value: $300

Get a 20-minute, 1-on-1 Ignite Your Sexuality Call with Amy Jo to help you set your intentions for the Fire Woman program. We will explore your deepest desires for this work, as well as your current situation and the patterns that have held you back from having what you most want.

50% Off Ticket to the Fire Woman Live Event

Value: $997

Come be nourished at a luscious, private in-person Fire Woman Live Event in southern California! This event will be an experiential dive into the 9 elements. You will meet the women face-to-face who have been with you in this work and have time to learn from Amy Jo in person.

PLUS 30% off ticket to Bring a Friend to the Fire Woman Live Event

Value: $997

Bring a sister, daughter, or friend to the Fire Woman Live Event in southern California! This work flourishes in community. We are creating a group of on-fire women who celebrate and support one another.

Magnificent You

This is unusual work that not many people will ever do on themselves. It’s a magnificent and sometimes scary journey to embark upon. The truth is that EVERYONE needs support for their sexuality and few will ever reach out to get it. If you’ve read this far, you are right for this work. You found it for a reason.

To take your sexuality seriously enough to invest in growing it just as you would any other part of yourself is an advanced move. Just like you would pay a personal trainer or a doctor to help you with your physical well-being and fitness, and just like you would invest in a therapist to help you with your mental health, you can invest in professional support to help you with one of the most personal, confusing, and important parts of who you are: your sexuality. This is where it’s at.

We thrive on helping people develop from the inside out, say the things they’ve never said, break through the parts of themselves that feel broken and ashamed, and reconnect the parts that might feel lost. You are a sexual being from the moment you come into the world. Come on in, and let’s take a closer look. It’s fun, it’s revealing, it’s vulnerable, it’s exciting, it’s enthralling, it’s challenging and it’s time.

About Amy Jo

Amy Jo Goddard is a sexual empowerment educator and author of Woman on Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power, and Sexual Intelligence. She earned her Master’s in Human Sexuality Education from NYU. Amy Jo has dedicated her life to sexuality education and empowerment, and her workshops, individual sessions, and speaking engagements have helped thousands of women discover their sexuality and deepen their personal relationships. She lives in Los Angeles, California.