When I tell someone that I’m a sex coach, they generally find it confusing. Often, I will hear, “Oh, so like, you’re a sex therapist?” Well not exactly. “So then, what is it that you actually do?” Sex coaching has made it to the news a few times and I was interviewed...
I turned 50 this week! It’s very surreal to think back to when you’re a kid and you think that people in their 40s and 50s are so old! I don’t actually feel old at all and people never think I’m my age and that’s because of the way that I...
It’s hard for so many of us to feel true pleasure. We don’t allow ourselves to feel good. It doesn’t really make any sense. Why? Why would we block ourselves from the pleasure and good feelings that are ours to have? If we thought nothing about our life or our day...
I have been hearing from women over the last several months about this idea that they are sexually broken. And a lot of times they are welling up with tears, and this is the first time they’ve ever voiced this to someone. It’s this idea that there is something about...
I will not lay down. I will not be resigned that “it’s just gonna be like it always is. Nothing will change.” Someone actually posted a comment to that effect this week on a post about the phone banking I have been doing. How do you think the world...
Last year my best friend told me by phone that my niece AnaMaria had started to use “they/them” pronouns. She said they might call me at some point to tell me more about it. I texted on and off with my niece as we often would but no mention of it. I figured when the...
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