Unpacking Santa and Consent

Unpacking Santa and Consent

I was walking in Pasadena yesterday and happened upon a local holiday fair, with live music, food, lots of people and a good long line to sit on Santa’s lap. I walked by the entryway near the line and saw Mrs. Claus sitting in a chair, but no one was sitting on...
It’s A Complex Holiday

It’s A Complex Holiday

I am so grateful for the rain that has washed over the west coast. These fires have been devastating to many and sending love to the firefighters who are risking their lives to save lives and homes. I hope you are enjoying your long weekend, however, you are spending...
How Does Money Relate To Sexuality?

How Does Money Relate To Sexuality?

When we evoke the Fire Woman, we mean from the inside. It’s been a very sad week in California with the fires raging in our canyons and so many people have lost their homes. I am sending love and tenderness to so many feeling so much loss. This is the “new...
My Birthday, Your Wildness

My Birthday, Your Wildness

Last Nov. 9 was my birthday–a much better one than in 2016, the day after the election, possibly one of the most collectively depressing days in recent U.S. history. I’m a words-of-appreciation lover so I do love cards and letters if you feel moved to send...