Sexuality is not a one-size-fits-all by any stretch of the imagination, and yet, everyone has common aspects of our sexual nature that require exploration, understanding and expression. When you work on your sexual self in a deep way, it impacts every other aspect of your life. Then you can begin to live the fully expressed and passionate life you were meant to live, a sexually empowered life.
Based on the tenets of her groundbreaking book Woman On Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power and Sexual Intelligence (Penguin Random House), Fire Woman is Amy Jo Goddard’s unique flagship program: designed to help you look at all facets of your sexual life in order to heal and create the new sexual life and expression you most want. With Amy Jo’s expert guidance and in the safe environment of this 9-month experiential virtual program, you will explore the 9 elements of your sexuality and come home to your sexual self.
9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power & Sexual Intelligence
The 9 elements are Amy Jo’s unique framework of holistic sexual empowerment, as laid out in her book. We explore one element together over a nine month period, meeting at the beginning of the month for a powerful teaching call with Amy Jo in which she lays out the element. Assignments, worksheets and personalized rituals in the weeks in between offer you a guided framework to explore the element in your own sexual life. Then, we close out at the month with a community call for group coaching and Q&A. You will experience a sex-positive community of women who are earnestly doing their self-growth work, ready to support you, witness your process and celebrate your growth.
Excavate and rewrite your inspired sexual story.
Make space for the sexual self you’ve been waiting for.
Release your damaging emotional patterns and open up to having more of what you want
Radically accept your body.
Activate desire & create a sexual practice.
Give yourself permission & develop your REAL erotic authenticity.
Develop sexual skills & remember how to play.
Build sexual confidence and come home to yourself.
Nurture and increase your dynamic sexual energy.
One element & two classes a month… from anywhere in the world.
Each month we explore a different element of sexual empowerment. On the second Wednesday of the month we meet for our teaching call. Two weeks later, the final Wednesday of the month, we meet by phone/webinar for a community call for support, dialogue and Q&A. All materials are always recorded and made available within 48 hours of each call in our private program portal. You can participate from anywhere in the world by internet or phone–we use Zoom video conferencing platform.
Assignments & exercises keep you on track.
This is not a fluffy, inspiration-filled course that lacks practical application: you will get real assignments, exercises and practical TOOLS to keep you on track as we move through each element. This work is rich and so is the structure that will help you integrate the learnings so that your outcomes are powerful. Our group structure will keep us accountable and the specialized focus on each element allows us to dive deep in between biweekly calls.
Examples of the rituals we go through in the Fire Woman program are:
- A powerful Ritual of Release to let go of the beliefs, stories, relationships and identities you most want to shed in your sexuality
- A luscious Self-Love ritual to deepen your masturbation practice and expand your orgasmic capability
- For partnered women: an intimate Couple’s Reconnection Ritual to give and receive sensual pleasure and deepen the connection
Build community with other women.
What would it do for you to have a community of women with whom you could share your sexual breakthroughs? With whom you could talk honestly about your struggles, celebrations and desires around sexuality? Through a private forum, we foster discussion on the 9 elements and the journey of sexual growth that we are each on. Women bring so many different things to the group and you will see yourself reflected in others, showing you that you are not alone and pushing you towards a greater version of yourself. This is a place where women are in support, and buck old paradigms of competition and scarcity. We raise each other up.
Women most often come to this work in their late 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s and 60s–sometimes earlier and sometimes later but always when the moment is right in their own personal development. You will meet women from all backgrounds and walks of life, and a variety of relationship styles and orientations: straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, queer, married, divorced, dating, single, polyamorous, monogamous, and more!
Some common factors in the women who choose to do this work include:
- the feeling on being on a personal, life-long journey — many women come to this work having already done therapy, coaching, 12 Step, spiritual seeking or other paths
- wanting to overcome longterm patterns of scarcity and deprivation — not only sexually, but also emotionally and financially
- being in a service role and wanting to be able to help others — many Fire Women are also therapists, teachers, nutritionists, social workers, coaches etc. Sometimes, the thing that motivates them to work on their own sexuality is realizing they need to be better equipped when their clients bring up sexual issues.
- being a mother and wanting to model healthy sexuality for one’s kids
- struggling with low libido and confusion about desire
- difficulty with communication in sex and relationships
- wanting to open up more and surrender during sex
- wanting to feel free, empowered and whole
Get these bonuses when you sign up for Fire Woman:
Ultimate Confidence in Sex, Money & Business 6-Part Class
This 6-module audio course is designed for people who want to be more confident in sex and dating and who want that confidence to radiate outwards into other areas of their lives.
Woman On Fire, the book
In a cultural landscape that defines achievement in terms of the workplace and the family, and that judges women’s worth by superficial standards of beauty, sexuality is often overlooked as an essential piece of women’s power. In Woman on Fire, Amy Jo Goddard lays out her holistic, inside-out approach to sexual empowerment.
How to Have Your Best Sexual Year Yet
In this virtual workshop & ritual recording, Amy Jo guides you to review the 7 key areas of your sexuality and to set an intention for each one so you can create your best sexual year yet.
1-on-1 Ignite Your Sexuality Call with Amy Jo
Get a 20-minute, 1-on-1 Ignite Your Sexuality Call with Amy Jo to help you set your intentions for the Fire Woman program. We will explore your deepest desires for this work, as well as your current situation and the patterns that have held you back from having what you most want.
Ticket to the Fire Woman Live Event
Come be nourished at a luscious, private in-person Fire Woman Live Event in southern California! This event will be an experiential dive into the 9 elements. You will meet the women face-to-face who have been with you in this work and have time to learn from Amy Jo in person.
PLUS Bring a Friend to the Fire Woman Live Event
Bring a sister, daughter, or friend to the Fire Woman Live Event in southern California! This work flourishes in community. We are creating a group of on-fire women who celebrate and support one another.
This is unusual work that not many people will ever do on themselves. It’s a magnificent and sometimes scary journey to embark upon. The truth is that EVERYONE needs support for their sexuality and few will ever reach out to get it. If you’ve read this far, you are right for this work. You found it for a reason.
To take your sexuality seriously enough to invest in growing it just as you would any other part of yourself is an advanced move. Just like you would pay a personal trainer or a doctor to help you with your physical well-being and fitness, and just like you would invest in a therapist to help you with your mental health, you can invest in professional support to help you with one of the most personal, confusing, and important parts of who you are: your sexuality. This is where it’s at.
We thrive on helping people develop from the inside out, say the things they’ve never said, break through the parts of themselves that feel broken and ashamed, and reconnect the parts that might feel lost. You are a sexual being from the moment you come into the world. Come on in, and let’s take a closer look. It’s fun, it’s revealing, it’s vulnerable, it’s exciting, it’s enthralling, it’s challenging and it’s time.
About Amy Jo
Amy Jo Goddard is a sexual empowerment coach and author of Woman on Fire: 9 Elements to Wake Up Your Erotic Energy, Personal Power, and Sexual Intelligence. She holds her Master’s in Human Sexuality Education from NYU. Goddard has dedicated her life to sexual education and empowerment, and her workshops, individual sessions, and speaking engagements have helped thousands of women discover their sexuality and deepen their personal relationships over the years. She lives in Napa, California.